Hey, guys! It’s that time of the month again. Another coffee chat with me! Wow. Seriously, though, why are the days flying by so quickly. I swear, it was only just February and now March is almost over. WHAT THE HECK.

If we were having coffee, I’d share with you that the reason why I feel like the days are flying by so quickly is because I’m looking forward to something. Mike and I got married last month but we still haven’t moved into our own home. I know, right! Everything is already settled but we decided to have a few minor renovations and now we are stuck,Β  homeless still. I know things are going to fall into place but the waiting is such an excitement killer. I’ve been very vocal to him about my lack of excitement and it is slowly causing an issue. (Not enough to actually fight…it gives me plenty of opportunities to be petty.) It sucks so much and I just can’t wait for us to finally come home.

If we were having coffee, I’d also want to share with you our financial difficulties, lol. I HATE MYSELF FOR ALLOWING US TO HAVE A “BIG” WEDDING. But seriously, it wasn’t. It was average but with everything so pricey it looked like it was. Thanks to everything being so pricey nowadays, we have run out of savings. There are a lot of unplanned expenses and it’s freaking me out a bit because I hate being unprepared. We both have jobs which means we will make it through this trying time but I just hate it that it caught me off guard. We can all blame my perfectionist self for feeling this way.

If we were having coffee, let me tell you another reason why my March flew by so fast. Let’s talk about my work. Work has been pretty eventful this March. I was thrown into a pit called responsibility and I can’t climb out of it. It also doesn’t help that I’m pretty new (not really, I’ve been here for a year but skill wise I have to admit, I am still lacking) to the skill and a lot of responsibilities are hanging on my shoulders. It sucks big time. I feel like I am a pretentious person who decided to bite more than she can chew. God, help me.

It’s only the first time in six years that I’ve ever felt the nine hours are not enough to do everything I need to do. A part of me wishes to get rolled off and go back to bench but a part of me knows that I can only improve and get better at this skill is if I get through this project in one piece. I hope, for the life and sanity of me, I get through this.

Lastly, if we were having coffee, I’d share with you that I already have WordAds on my blog. If you’ve been with me from the start, you’d know that a goal of mine is to earn from this blog. I have been unsuccessful for the past years and I’m at a point where I don’t even want to try anymore. However, quitting is for losers, so this is this year’s attempt at trying to earn. I’m still not sure how or if I’ll earn but we’ll see where this goes.

That’s it for this month’s coffee date. Life lately has been pretty uneventful. There’s just a lot of counting down the days and working really hard for our future. It’s okay to have a down month because I know if we work really hard we can get a lot more up months.

How was your March like? Tell me more about it in the comments below!

Faves for March 2018.


I am a Hero This is a Japanese zombie movie. Story-wise, I give it a 6/10 but zombie-wise 10/10. LOVED IT

Black Mirror

Queer Eye

How to Make $ on Youtube $ by Pewdiepie


WonderΒ This has got to be one of the best books I’ve read this year

Between You and Me by Lisa Hall


About the Author Kat

To keep it short and simple: I'm twenty-nine years old. Still plenty young, but not as young as I used to be.


  1. Hello Kat! Good na may WordAds ka na! Kelangan ba namin lagi i click yang mga ads dito para kumita ka na??? HAHAHA naalala ko yung isang post mo na sinabi mong, Guys why aren’t you helping me? (haha, tama ba? ganyan ata yung pagkakasabi mo LOL)

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    1. HahahahHaha!!!!!!! Oo yan yung sabi ko!!! Sa totoo lang hindi ko din sure kung paano kumita perooooo gusto ko pa din magtry. Baka pag less effort kasi ako this time may mangyari πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›

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    1. Nakuuuu parang hindi pa totoo Meg! Siguro dahil nga nakikitira pa kami and ang dami pang outside forces. Lol. Looking forward dun sa day na kaming dalawa na lang talaga

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  2. Hey Kat!
    Yeah, seriously! Where did March go? It is already Easter Sunday, April Fools’ Day, AND the 1st day of April?! That almost seems like overkill, doesn’t it? This morning I was less than enthused wondering where the time has gone and already feeling anxiety over class starting this upcoming Tuesday.
    Thankfully my bf was patient with my moody self today. Also, we decided we don’t want to turn 30 in our current city So we put our house on the market and 2 days later we already have a serious offer. This feels like a lot too, but it is something we have talked about for a few years now. We want to buy some land outright and build our dream home. I have 10 weeks in Spring Quarter and then I can spend my senior year in college doing paid internships which will be nice.
    I bring all this up because we will be in a similar place as you and your husband if we decide to really accept this offer. We might stay with my parents or his parents to save money while I finish up the quarter.
    Historically I have not dealt very well with uncertainty, but this time around I will try to do better.
    It sounds like you are rockin’ it at married life, and at work, AND with this blog! Keep it up Kat!!!

    ❀ Alana

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  3. OMG ALANA. My eyes literally widened at your news!!!!! πŸ˜€ If you do push through with it, I wish you and the bf the best. I hope you don’t face any obstacles and this strengthens your relationship. I know you can do well with uncertainty this time around! You have definitely grown and strenghtend through the years and I can’t be any produer. Congratulations too on your upcoming and very near graduation. It feels like things are finally falling into place for you! ❀


  4. If 9h ain’t enough that means you are really being productive, ate πŸ™‚ I hope makalipat na kayo. Mag house tour ka or something. Hahahaha! And congrats on WordAds!!!! Magclick-an tayo ng ads pls lol


    1. Oo, Teesh, meron na! Nakalipat na din ako. πŸ˜› Kita tayo para real life coffee session (or kahit pala hindi kasi hindi ako nagccoffee talaga)



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